How to treat a lady.

1. Be Nice to her. Remember that every human being wants to be appreciated and treated well . The more genuine and specific you are, the better.

2. Remember that "no means no" . If you're doing something that makes her uncomfortable , even something simple like hugging, stop doing it. Ask her why it made her uncomfortable, and try not to make her uncomfortable again - either don't do that thing, or wait until she tells you she's ready but you need to remember that sometimes asking the same thing over and over again can be annoying.

 3. Let her talk about herself . If you say you want to get to know her better, and you then take over all the conversations, she will think you are self-centered and not very interested in her after all.

 4. Find out about her hobbies by asking questions about the kind of music she likes, sports, movies, family, observing her environment, etc .

 5. Compliment her . Say that her hair looks nice or that a shirt looks great on her. Then look in her eyes , and smile . Mean it. Keep it real. A small gift is a nice touch Tell her she is pretty. No matter how average she thinks her looks may be, a girl will usually be flattered and pleased to know you think she is attractive. Say "You've got the most beautiful eyes/hair/skin/hands/etc. I've ever seen," and again, mean it!

6. Maintain good hygiene . Take a shower , put on deodorant, brush your teeth, comb your hair, and shave (if needed) right before you see her—every time. Nothing makes a girl more uncomfortable than body odor, badbreath, or skanky skin.

7. Listen! You need to be a good listener. That works with most girls; they need someone who will patiently listen and understand them! Make comments that encourage her to provide more detail, especially if it's an intense topic. And NEVER abruptly change a topic of discussion unless there is a definitive (and obvious) end to that topic. All too often, boys break away from a conversation abruptly with a new topic that stresses how great or wonderful they are. Don't fall into this trap. If you follow the discussion and really listen, that is when she will really know you're into her. There is a huge difference between "hearing" and"listening", so make sure you are actively listening to her. Don't try to fix it. We all have a tendency to want to fix things. When a girl talks to you about a problem, she more than likely does not want you to help her fix it. She just wants you to acknowledge that she has a problem and empathize.

 8. Let her know about things she might be interested in . This will show her you remembered and are thinking about her, and the things she likes.

9. Don't forget her special occasions - especially her birthday .

10. Be truthful . There is no need to lie. Being honest during the dating process means you are being real - being the person she likes and not the person you think she'll like. If you find yourself consistently prone to embellishing the truth about yourself, try aiming toward that goal so that it will be the truth. If you find yourself always apologizing or trying to soothe her ruffled feathers, you need to honestly decide whether or not the two of you are a match. Treating a girl well also means recognizing this truth, and telling her in a way that hurts as little as possible — as soon as you know.